Communication is key throughout life in the development of friendships, sharing viewpoints, and simply connecting with others. For those who are deaf or hard-of-hearing, this can often be difficult, especially for those who communicate using American Sign Language (ASL), something hearing individuals are often not proficient in. While many may also use lip reading periodically, or have the ability to lip read, it is very difficult to rely solely on this communication method. Lip reading takes a great deal of time and practice to learn, and according to the National Deaf Children’s Society, only about 30% of lip reading can be accurately understood. Facial expressions are also read during lip reading to help provide context and understanding of the conversation, contributing to difficulties in group settings or low lighting.
To better understand some of the challenges involved with lip reading, try to read the lips of a family member or friend talking during a noisy event where it is difficult to hear, or turn the volume off while watching a television program. Afterwards, see how accurately you read their lips and how many words were correct. Imagine you are also in a group setting and think about what it might be like to read the lips of more than one individual at a time. It is likely you may struggle a bit and perhaps feel some frustration.
What can you do to help relieve lip reading challenges?
If you are in a situation with a deaf or hard-of-hearing friend, family member or colleague who is lip reading during your conversation, here are some helpful tips.
- Ensure there is proper lighting so the individual can easily see your facial expressions and lips.
- Speak clearly and at a typical pace, as talking slower or faster may actually make lip reading more difficult.
- Avoid eating or chewing while speaking.
- Do not cover your mouth while talking.
- Face the person you are speaking with.
- Ensure moustaches and beards do not cover the lips.
- Reduce the background noise.
With the aid of some of these tips, communication will, hopefully, be clearer and remove frustrations felt by both sides of the conversation. For those doing the lip reading, also remember, as provided by Hearing Link Services, that it can be exhausting due to the concentration required and mental search through your personal storage of words. Take breaks if needed, and for those doing the talking, keep this in mind as the conversation continues. There are many ways to communicate with others and with some knowledge and patience, we can all help each other to feel included in conversations and leave them with understanding.
